Kids, independence and the outdoors
Every other summer when I was growing up, my family visited my great-grandmother's ranch in the hills of northern California. A bounty of interesting and abandoned structures stood decrepit on this once bustling cattle farm, and it was all mine to discover.
I still remember searching for barn owls in the rafters of the old hay barn and relishing in the capture of the pudgiest bullfrog tadpoles from the dredger ponds. For what seemed like hours, I'd kneel on muddy knees as I earnestly tried to lure feral kittens out from under the front stoop of the farmhouse. Traveling through the fields alone, I was aware of the risk of startling rattlesnakes as I walked through thigh-high wildflowers, or the chance of meeting of an aggressive Angus bull. And the incessant buzz of wasps and hornets was never far away. Yet I was having the time of my life.
It was this faint whiff of danger that cemented my appreciation of nature and ultimately resulted in my choosing conservation education as my profession. Teetering on the edge of risk around the dangers of the ranch increased my attention to the world around me and elevated my respect for animals.
Yet now, as a mother of a 7-year-old son, I ask myself if I'd allow my child to explore nature unsupervised, as I did. Sure, I'm all for family hikes, vegetable gardens and making bird feeders. But my defenses start to rise when I think of my son leaving for hours on end for autumnal rambles through the forest behind our townhouse in Pikesville.
What's changed?
Perhaps it's the fact that we don't know the people who live nearby. Only 20 percent of Americans
Maybe the kids have less free time? In some cases, yes. However, with the increase in the percentage of two-parent households that have both parents working full-time (46 percent
Finally, there's
From climate change to endangered species, today's kids will inherit a world wracked by ecological crises. But how can they learn to care about the world if they've never gotten to explore it?
I'll be different, I say. I'll let my son venture into the woods alone to make forts, find salamanders under rocks, leap across ravines and move independently through the forest. I'll say yes to this because I know it will make him a better steward of the planet and more patient, respectful observer of nature. I will do it.
I hope.