Suicidal teens turn to social media
People have posted suicidal content on Facebook for a decade now, but the difference today is that the post is a video. One of the earliest cases of a live-streamed suicide was Abraham Biggs in 2008, during which he linked to a live-stream site called Justin.tv, where the video showed him overdosing on prescription pills. Recently, a Miami teen committed suicide by hanging while streaming on Facebook Live, a Georgia teen committed suicide by hanging while live streaming on
Neuroscience research correlates with what humans have known for centuries: Adolescents, as compared to adults, are more susceptible to influence, less future oriented, less risk-averse and less able to manage their impulses and behavior. But just as there are a myriad of reasons why youth are drawn to suicide, the reasons why some chose to publicly display the deliberate act of killing themselves are not straightforward. Cognitive immaturity coupled with spending a large portion of one’s day immersed in a medium that provides instant gratification or rejection can possibly instill a sense of disconnectedness from the reality of one’s own existence. Social media is a haven for teenagers struggling with issues related to self-esteem or abandonment as they instantly get the attention or the validation they are craving for in the form of Facebook “likes” and Twitter “retweets.”
Posting to the world the deliberate act of ending one’s life can possibly serve different purposes. The combination of the quasi-feeling of connectedness instilled by social media and the feeling that one can control one’s actions in the privacy of the bedroom or bathroom might take away the solitary feeling of the suicide act. The combined weight of vulnerability, need for validation and limited decision-making capacity might make it difficult for some youth to step back once they have posted something pertaining to suicide on social media. Sharing experiences can turn into an obsession about approval that can wreak havoc on self-image. Abraham Biggs, a 19-year-old in Florida, had been discussing his suicide on an online body-building forum. People kept egging him on by saying things like “go ahead and do it,” until he succumbed to an opiate and benzodiazepine overdose.
A primary concern with suicide or self-harm videos is that they may normalize and reinforce self-injurious behaviors. The Blue Whale “suicide game,” which news accounts claim has led to several teenage suicides in Russia, is believed to be an online social media group that encourages people to kill themselves. It is believed that a group administrator assigns “daily tasks” to members — such as self-harming, watching horror movies and waking up at unusual hours — which they have to complete for 50 days. On the 50th day, the administrator is believed to instruct the youngsters to commit suicide. It’s no coincidence that lately I have come across several patients who are able to relate their misery to Hannah Baker, a fictional character from the Netflix series “13 Reasons Why.” Originally a novel written by Jay Asher, “13 Reasons Why” tells the story of why Hannah Baker, from a white-picket-fence town with an almost perfect family, committed suicide.
If social currency, the number of “likes” or “wows” or “retweets” or textual portrayal of a writer's mood in emoji, is a pivotal measure for modern youths’ self-esteem, then hanging or jumping off a building or overdosing on pills could seem like no more than the equivalent of entering or exiting the world of virtual reality.